At last you've found a girl which has grabbed your attention. The next step will be to compose a letter to her. Make your first message short and sweet. You must start from something, then you should find common things which unite both of you, it will make it easier to generate a response from her.

DO NOT:
- use in your letter incomprehensible for her words or phrases;
- talk about other women or other Russian woman;
- talk about your problems with women;
- talk about other problems in your life (it’s not the right time);
- talk about sex (there is an exception if you are not searching for easy relations);

TRY to be simple and don't try to explain difficult ideas.

The things taking another turn

You should watch carefully the changes in manner of writing messages and its content. If somebody, who has been writing about love to children and then starts sounding quite in the opposite way, it will be a good idea to cancel the correspondence. While there is a high success rate of people finding each other online, forming strong relationships and getting close, there may be times when the Russian women you are interested in won't pay you by reciprocity. Don't take it personally or too close to heart. There are lots of fish in the sea. And the next Russian girls you contact may be the one you were looking for all along.

If you decide to stop communicating with a lady, remember one thing that there is never any reason to be rude. Put yourself in that person's place and think of what you wouldn't like to hear if you were them, consider their feelings.

It is impossible to predict every situation you might encounter in the multifaceted online dating world. But it is possible to make the most of it by being thoughtful, positive and considerate. Just remain yourself and treat others the way you'd like them to treat you, and you will gain the desirable benefit from online communication.