Keep in mind that Russian women can make the evaluation of your personality for five seconds, because the first impression is very important. This also applies to your friends, family and even to your house. Single Russian woman take pride in their homes, and very carefully select each of their elements. In fact, most of them believe that the place, where people can relax, says a lot about them, their personality and what things are important to them. Therefore, it is pretty natural when a girl comes to your house and evaluates not only you but also the things and items out of your environment. And she can make her conclusion based on what she'll find in your house and on what she won't see there.
Of course, you may draw the beautiful pictures of your prospective life in your mind, but in the same time you shouldn't forget about the essential things helping to know each other intimately and to avoid misunderstandings in the future.
Actually there are two simple ways to cope with this problem:
- reveal the information that one usually doesn't share with the general public or something you've never shared with anyone. You won't only become closer to each other through sharing the intimate details of who you are and where you've been intellectually and spiritually, but you'll aim your relationship to a good start and build a strong foundation as well. The sooner you know each other, the sooner you make a decision whether you are the right matches for each other. If the candidate for your life partner can't accept your secrets, chances are that both of you do not match each other. But do not open the private information that should stay private.
- do not drag your skeletons out of the closet by illuminating the most painful life experiences and private family history. Do not be focused on honesty from the first moment and instead of this attentively watch the movie featuring war and brave defenders to know how to keep your mouth shut in a better way. Take away all the photos of your ex-girls. This applies equally to all things reminiscent her, including the gifts received from her; why haven't you taken all of them away off your table yet? Even if the gifts serve only as the decoration items or simply you are very sentimental, then store them as far as possible away off her eyes. But if such things are in your permanent using (for example, a sofa that you really consider necessary and can not afford to throw it away), there is no need to talk about its past and where you got it from.